On Letting Go

We all have a past that we want to forget, a past that we regret, a past that we wish never happened, a past that we wish we could change, and/or a past we that we never wanted to end. We all do. We all do.

Past. It’s where most of our pains root. It’s where we left parts of ourselves that we wish to have back. It’s where our hearts got broken. It’s where our tears dropped.

Past. In other words, done. In other words, unexchangeable. In other words, let it go.

Letting go, as we all know, is vital in life but is also extremely difficult. First of all, how to start? How to start accepting what had been done without confronting the pain again? How to start forgetting what had been said? How to stop regretting? It’s way, way difficult that anyone could ever anticipate.

Letting go can be a long, long process. A long, long emotional battle. A long mental struggle. It’s tiring. It’s tiring.

But, it’s vital. Let’s always go back to that. It’s vital. Letting go is vital in living the present. Live in the present, they said. But actually, before you could really do that, you have to let go of your past first. Otherwise, the past will mess around with the present.

So, what can we do to let go of the past?

  1. Forgive ourselves.
  2. Forgive others.
  3. Forgive life.

And again, these three promised to be such grueling processes. But think about them. Think about their importance.

Tonight, I’ll be praying for us. May we finally learn to let go of our pasts by being able to do those three difficult steps. Then, after we let go, may we be more open to love ourselves, to love others, and to love life.

Is moving on a choice?

A wound. We don’t choose to get hurt by our wounds. We get hurt because they’re naturally painful. Even if we try to ignore it, the pain is there. We only stop hurting when the wounds mended, when they get healed. Is it the same with moving on?

Yes, we can do something to help our wounds heal faster. We can put on ointments, we can wrap them with bandaid, or drink medicines to cure them. However, there are certain factors that may still hinder the wounds from healing completely like our general well-being, what’s happening inside our body. For instance, wounds heal significantly slower if you have diabetes. There are instances too when wounds are permanent. Maybe I’m not only talking about physical wounds.

So, is moving on a choice? Could one really let go of the past when he chose to? Or time just does the job. After all, time heals all wounds.

These were just my bedtime thoughts. Or maybe not. I don’t know. Or maybe I do. Lol. I should be sleeping by now. Good night then.